Penny: You visited the grave and want to show respect.
Nickel: You trained at boot camp with the deceased.
Dime: You served together in the same unit.
Quarter: You were there when the person died.
These coins silently say: You are not forgotten. You mattered. I remember.
đ A Symbol of Respect Beyond the Military
Although the tradition is rooted in military circles, it has gradually extended to civilians. You may find coins on the graves of beloved teachers, first responders, public figures, or even strangers whose stories touched someoneâs life.
In these cases, the coins still serve as a symbol of remembrance. For some, itâs a way to âhave a conversationâ with the deceased. For others, itâs a sign that the personâs life had an impact.
