Step 6: The Color Question
What colors should the mother of the groom avoid?
White (unless specifically approved)
Ivory or cream (too bridal)
The exact same color as bridesmaids (unless requested)
Neon or ultra-bright tones
Best safe colors:
Navy
Dusty blue
Burgundy
Silver
Champagne
Forest green
Mauve
Dark colors are slimming and classic. Light metallics feel festive without being flashy.
Step 7: Comfort Is Non-Negotiable
Your mom will:
Stand for photos
Walk down the aisle
Sit through the ceremony
Hug countless guests
Possibly dance all night
Make sure:
The dress fits well
She can move her arms comfortably
The shoes are broken in
Nothing scratches or pulls
Comfort equals confidence.
Step 8: Accessories Complete the Look
Keep accessories refined, not overpowering.
Jewelry ideas:
Pearl earrings
Delicate drop earrings
A simple bracelet
Statement necklace (if neckline is simple)
Shoes:
Mid-height heels
Block heels
Dressy flats
Closed-toe pumps
Clutch:
Small metallic clutch
Matching satin bag
Step 9: Hair and Makeup
The dress should complement her hairstyle.
Updos pair beautifully with detailed necklines.
Soft waves look elegant with simple gowns.
Natural glam makeup photographs beautifully.
Encourage her to do a trial if possible.
Step 10: Emotional Considerations
This day is emotional for the mother of the groom. Her baby is getting married.
Choosing a dress that makes her feel:
Seen
Appreciated
Beautiful
Important
…is just as vital as color or cut.
Sometimes the best choice isn’t the trendiest dress—but the one that makes her smile when she looks in the mirror.
Trending Mother of the Groom Styles
Some current favorites include:
Dusty blue chiffon gowns
Lace overlay midi dresses
Structured navy satin dresses
Silver sequin accents (subtle, not disco!)
Cape-style sleeves
One-shoulder elegant gowns
Trends are wonderful—but timeless elegance never goes out of style.
Budget Considerations
Beautiful dresses exist at every price point.
Under $100: Simple chiffon or lace dresses
$100–$300: Higher quality fabrics, better tailoring
$300+: Designer pieces, detailed beading
Sometimes tailoring a less expensive dress creates a luxury look.
Final Checklist Before Buying
✔ Is it appropriate for the wedding formality?
✔ Does it coordinate with the wedding colors?
✔ Does she feel confident wearing it?
✔ Can she sit, walk, and dance comfortably?
✔ Does it photograph well?
If the answer is yes to all five—you’ve found the one.
A Loving Reminder
The mother of the groom doesn’t need to compete. She doesn’t need to look 25 again. She doesn’t need to impress anyone.
She just needs to feel like the elegant, proud woman who raised an amazing son.
And when she walks into that wedding venue, glowing with love and pride, no one will be looking at the label inside her dress.
They’ll be looking at her smile.
