This internal bargaining often leads to frustration.

Confucius proposed something different: live according to what is right for you, without demanding compensation from fate.

Modern psychology calls this an internal locus of control. Philosophy calls it maturity.

Well-being does not depend on time, politics, family, or circumstances. It depends on one’s relationship with lived experience.

The Truth About Aging
Old age does not create character. It reveals it.

If there was gratitude, it deepens it.

If there was resentment, it magnifies it.

If there was wisdom, it makes it visible.

If there was inner chaos, it exposes it.

That is why Confucius insisted on daily inner work.

Those who cultivate themselves in youth rest peacefully in old age. Those who avoid it must confront it later—when they have less strength.