Do you love glitter, sequins, or satin? Save them for a wedding or a New Year’s Eve party. At a funeral, the shimmering sparkles of these garments immediately draw attention and can look inappropriate.
A gold blouse, a silver dress, or even a sequined handbag creates a festive atmosphere, even if the occasion calls for modesty and simplicity. Accessories should follow the same logic: opt for delicate and understated jewelry rather than flashy or sparkly pieces.
What colors and outfits should you choose instead?
Good news: you don’t have to wear black if you don’t have a loved one. While it remains the safest and most traditional option, other alternatives work perfectly well.
For women: a simple dress, a modest skirt, or a pantsuit in dark tones (navy, charcoal gray, dark brown). The cuts should be elegant but understated, without low necklines or overly visible details.
For men: a dark suit with a light shirt and a classic tie. Shoes should be discreet, without bright colors or flashy patterns.
For everyone: minimalist accessories. A small, discreet scarf, a simple handbag, and fine jewelry are more than enough.
The idea is to leave all the space for the memory of the deceased, and not for their clothing.
Subtlety in dress, a silent gesture of support.
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